Saturday, October 27, 2007

Accessories…get most girls crazy!!!








“Wow that necklace is so beautiful” or “oh my! Isn’t that earring a cool one! “Are one of the expressions we girls use every other day now. Most of the women today like to wear all kinds of jewelers be it old model gold, black metal, white metal, or new trendy and funky sets. A friend of mine takes almost an hour or more to think what accessories she has to put on with her dress when she is going out be it to her neighbor’s house for a casual chat. get most girls crazy!!!








So what we have to conclude is that “a lady without accessories or vice-versa is just incomplete”. Now after u shop for too many of this stuff, u also need to know which accessory goes right with which outfit. A bright beaded necklace would add a neat and stylish look to your simple outfit. If u only have that creative idea then you could work wonders with what you possess.


Now next time your girlfriend or fiancĂ©e uses this expression “that’s a real cool piece of jeweler” then don’t waste time and grab the piece right there, and you can expect a glow in her eyes.

And of course I too love all kind of accessories.....


Wednesday, October 24, 2007

pre-reunoin




Together once again…3yrs is too long!!
After such a long time all the old buddies of school got to meet each other at the pre-reunion party. I think it has been around 3 years that we all haven’t met. “That’s a long time” says a friend. True enough it’s been like hell lot more than just 3 years for all of us. All of us were equally excited I guess for this pre-reunion. At first we all looked at each other just as we were looking at aliens probably to identify each other correctly or maybe we needed a little time to be ourselves again. Enough of this stranger’s play we had started talking to each other. We were clicking pictures which if any one would look at would doubt us as mad people. We were freaking and recollecting old days of school. I think the guys had their animal in them out already [they were all jumping around] .The animal instinct in them you see can’t wait too long. So I had a friend, who had joined IIT who was telling us about life at his place and occasionally about the girls there. There was another friend who had joined the IIT but was not present there at the time. We all had already started chatting and cared less about the time. Its like no one disturbs us and we would talk forever. We had so much to talk with each other that time seemed a barrier. Few of them had joined in the University of engineering; few were heading to become future successful doctors, few in the field of sociology or economics, a few future dentists and etc. Every now and then we would get to
see guys running and jumping over each other
. After some time I guess the guys had forgotten the girls and were clicking pictures within themselves, crazy aren’t they? Now to add to this was the sudden rain that spoilt the time. We had to get under a proper roof which we could find nowhere around. So we decided not to fight against rain and finally got a kind of drenched. As I said this was just a pre-reunion party we didn’t entertain ourselves getting wet in the rain. We bid bye to our friends with a heavy heart but with a hope that we would have a reunion soon after. There were a few friends who were not present at the time that we missed a lot. So we are having our reunion after around a month or two. We are going to rock the party screamed a friend as we went back home.
Let’s rock our reunion guys
Love you all buddies out there!!!!!!!!!

Thursday, August 30, 2007

THE WHEEL OF LIFE




There are no accidents. Everything in life happens for a positive reason. The sole purpose of life is to grow.
Should you shield the canyons from the windstorms, you would never see the beauty of their carvings.
Everyone is loved beyond comprehension.
Everyone is blessed and guided
.
It is very important that you do only what you love to do. You may be poor, you may go hungry, you may live in a shabby place, and you will totally live. And at the end of your days, you will bless your life because you have done what you came here to do.
The ultimate lesson is learning how to live and let others know how to live [cherish].
The greatest rewards in your whole life will come from opening your heart to those in need. The greatest blessings always come from helping
.
All people come from the same source and return to the same source.

All the hardships that come to you in life,all the tribulations and nightmares,all the things you see as punishments from god, are in reality like gifts..."u cannot heal the world without healing urself first"

"YOU SHOULD LIVE [not exist] UNTIL U DIE"

"Death is but a transition from this life to another existence where there is no more pain and anguish"....Elizabeth Kubler Ross

So live life not just because u have to but because u love it.......its precious and is worth lots if u care....
"LIFE IS 10% HOW U TAKE IT AND 90% HOW U MAKE IT
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.......................................SO remember to live not just exist before its too LATE

TRIBUTE TO ONE LOVELY FRIEND


The days of cloud or sunshine,
The moments that we share,
The timely word, the thoughtful line,
The note that says “I care”...
Mean more to me than I can say,
So it’s time, I think, you knew,
How much it brightens up my day
To have a friend like you!
What brightens all my memories?
Is the great times that we’ve shared…
You’re one of those special people
`Cause you take the time to care!
When I feel a little blue and sad,
The easiest thing for me to do,
Is remember that things can’t be that bad
When I have wonderful friends like YOU………….!!!!!!!!
these are a few words i cud write only to express my feelings towards a real lovely friend who is more like a sister to me.......thanks to u liang de,u mean really a world to me

well this is also dedicated to all my friends who care for me and also expect me to care for them.........luv u people

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

THE 10 COMMANDMENTS


this is for all those who wud genuinly like to abide by these commandments[can't help if u don't]........chill out everyone!!!!!!
1. One shall not worry for worry is the most unproductive of all human activities.
2. One shall not be fearful, for most of the things we fear never come to pass.
3. One shall not cross bridges before u come to them, for no one yet has succeeded in accomplishing this.
4. One shall face each problem as it comes. U can only handle one at a time.
5. One shall not borrow other people’s sorrows [in fake] they can better care for them than you can.
6. One shall not try to relive yesterday for good or ill, it is forever gone. Concentrate on what is happening in your life and be happy now!
7. One shall not take problems to bed with you for they make very poor bedfellows.
8.One shall be a good listener for only then can you learn new things which is impossible when u talk.
9.One shall not become "bogged down" by frustatoin for it is rooted in self pity.
10.One shall count even small blessings which add upto form a big blessing
hoping u readers understood what this ment.........

DREAM IT ......ITS UR RIGHT


TO DREAM AND FAIL IS OK..BUT TO FAIL TO DREAM RIGHT IS TRULY TRAGIC
the other day i wake up and am late already...got to rush to college were my immediate thoughts.People in the house were all the same busy.Quickly went on to sparkle my teeth ,have a bath and dressup.Everything was zigzag everywhere,spilled a glass of wateron the tablecloth[ din't matter much to me but was supposed to b a new one]..
i rushed to reach my destination(my college)...busstop in priority.RUN..RUN..RUN my mind ordered,but lo! despite all efforts missed the bus.

wid dissapointment i turned back to see my friend there on the terrace smiling at me........she reminded me that our principal was on an official leave...it was not really necessary to attend college that day...[literally bunk]

college was busy wid practicals to b held soit was ok for us to bunk.Went back home called a few friends .They were therein a few min..ona condition though that i wud get something to eat and watch a gud movie..

All of us spread ourselves in the room watching a few new movies...ALL of us alreadyin a relaxed mood when a friend reminds that we were to submit our records and herbaria[i call it a book bearing plants]......shit why can't there be peace for sometime ....so now its time to decide who is to go to submit them.............................lo!as expected[i hate these moments]Niki & Me are elected to do the job[ banadiya bali ka bakra fir se]......"chalo lets start with our job" saya niki.
Now we take a bike[a wave] and start towards the college .....going on and on......[vroom].....there is the traffic police standing for us .His eyes i cud read said "come girls i know u r with no lisence ,will put u behind bars today.....god! We headed back the other directoin.
Came walking to the stop [all the way around 3km]only to find that there is no transport towards the college at that time...........

after the line of patience was crossed a bus had the mercy to give us a lift to our coll..
we finally reach our place......"if a path is without obstacles probably it wud lead u nowhere"someone had said it right .
Waiting for us were the directors of the college who planned to give us all a surprise visit[tragic i call this].....the staff of the coll.. give us both quick glances and order us to get in ..."run for ur life man" niki spoke again.

now everything was so peaceful inside ...tring...... the bell [to let students finish their day at college ]goes....
we come out too but there is more to handle...........there i cud see our principal staring at us both[ not only had he come back but had also seen us come late].........."these are the last moments of our life "stammered niki again.

Suddenly everything goes blank .only to notice was smoke whirling around my eyes........

PHEW!!it was just a dream[nightmare wud sound better]
but damn it was a dream that showed hell..........

That was still not that bad a day cause u drift back to memories and find many more things ,that a few days have been worse.................

Tuesday, August 28, 2007

HUMAN RELATIONS


HUMAN RELATIONS IS...
....human relation is a personal quality in a person for social purpose-better understanding& better relationship for working with group..
..study of human nature
..influencing human behaviour

..ability to get along
..motivating others
..interacting as well
..prejudice is bad
..intolerance is worse
..admitting mistakes is good
..cheerful disposition is best

HUMAN RELATIONS WiLL HELP U TO..
..evaluate ur'self and improve
..be warm and friendly
..be tactful
..be cordial
..be honest and reliable
..go out to others
..know thyself
..be more acceptable
..be agreeable
..be likeable


BASICS OF HUMAN RELATIONS
..remember names
..be simple,moderate
..don't get angry too often
..smile
..don't be too selfish
..make others feel important
..be a good listener
..be concerned honestly
..be genuine ,humble and sincere
A SHORT COURSE IN HUMAN RELATIONS
the 6 most important words :"i admit i made a mistake"
the 5 most important words :"u did a good job"
the 4 most important words :"what is ur opinion"
the 3 most important words :"if u please"
the 2 most important words :"thank u"
the i most important word :"we"
the least important word :......"i"