THE WHEEL OF LIFE

There are no accidents. Everything in life happens for a positive reason. The sole purpose of life is to grow.
Should you shield the canyons from the windstorms, you would never see the beauty of their carvings.
Everyone is loved beyond comprehension.
Everyone is blessed and guided.
It is very important that you do only what you love to do. You may be poor, you may go hungry, you may live in a shabby place, and you will totally live. And at the end of your days, you will bless your life because you have done what you came here to do.
The ultimate lesson is learning how to live and let others know how to live [cherish].
The greatest rewards in your whole life will come from opening your heart to those in need. The greatest blessings always come from helping.
All people come from the same source and return to the same source.

All the hardships that come to you in life,all the tribulations and nightmares,all the things you see as punishments from god, are in reality like gifts..."u cannot heal the world without healing urself first"

"YOU SHOULD LIVE [not exist] UNTIL U DIE"

"Death is but a transition from this life to another existence where there is no more pain and anguish"....Elizabeth Kubler Ross

So live life not just because u have to but because u love it.......its precious and is worth lots if u care....
"LIFE IS 10% HOW U TAKE IT AND 90% HOW U MAKE IT
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.......................................SO remember to live not just exist before its too LATE

TRIBUTE TO ONE LOVELY FRIEND

The days of cloud or sunshine,
The moments that we share,
The timely word, the thoughtful line,
The note that says “I care”...
Mean more to me than I can say,
So it’s time, I think, you knew,
How much it brightens up my day
To have a friend like you!
What brightens all my memories?
Is the great times that we’ve shared…
You’re one of those special people
`Cause you take the time to care!
When I feel a little blue and sad,
The easiest thing for me to do,
Is remember that things can’t be that bad
When I have wonderful friends like YOU………….!!!!!!!!
these are a few words i cud write only to express my feelings towards a real lovely friend who is more like a sister to me.......thanks to u liang de,u mean really a world to me

well this is also dedicated to all my friends who care for me and also expect me to care for them.........luv u people

THE 10 COMMANDMENTS

this is for all those who wud genuinly like to abide by these commandments[can't help if u don't]........chill out everyone!!!!!!
1. One shall not worry for worry is the most unproductive of all human activities.
2. One shall not be fearful, for most of the things we fear never come to pass.
3. One shall not cross bridges before u come to them, for no one yet has succeeded in accomplishing this.
4. One shall face each problem as it comes. U can only handle one at a time.
5. One shall not borrow other people’s sorrows [in fake] they can better care for them than you can.
6. One shall not try to relive yesterday for good or ill, it is forever gone. Concentrate on what is happening in your life and be happy now!
7. One shall not take problems to bed with you for they make very poor bedfellows.
8.One shall be a good listener for only then can you learn new things which is impossible when u talk.
9.One shall not become "bogged down" by frustatoin for it is rooted in self pity.
10.One shall count even small blessings which add upto form a big blessing
hoping u readers understood what this ment.........

DREAM IT ......ITS UR RIGHT

TO DREAM AND FAIL IS OK..BUT TO FAIL TO DREAM RIGHT IS TRULY TRAGIC
the other day i wake up and am late already...got to rush to college were my immediate thoughts.People in the house were all the same busy.Quickly went on to sparkle my teeth ,have a bath and dressup.Everything was zigzag everywhere,spilled a glass of wateron the tablecloth[ din't matter much to me but was supposed to b a new one]..
i rushed to reach my destination(my college)...busstop in priority.RUN..RUN..RUN my mind ordered,but lo! despite all efforts missed the bus.

wid dissapointment i turned back to see my friend there on the terrace smiling at me........she reminded me that our principal was on an official leave...it was not really necessary to attend college that day...[literally bunk]

college was busy wid practicals to b held soit was ok for us to bunk.Went back home called a few friends .They were therein a few min..ona condition though that i wud get something to eat and watch a gud movie..

All of us spread ourselves in the room watching a few new movies...ALL of us alreadyin a relaxed mood when a friend reminds that we were to submit our records and herbaria[i call it a book bearing plants]......shit why can't there be peace for sometime ....so now its time to decide who is to go to submit them.............................lo!as expected[i hate these moments]Niki & Me are elected to do the job[ banadiya bali ka bakra fir se]......"chalo lets start with our job" saya niki.
Now we take a bike[a wave] and start towards the college .....going on and on......[vroom].....there is the traffic police standing for us .His eyes i cud read said "come girls i know u r with no lisence ,will put u behind bars today.....god! We headed back the other directoin.
Came walking to the stop [all the way around 3km]only to find that there is no transport towards the college at that time...........

after the line of patience was crossed a bus had the mercy to give us a lift to our coll..
we finally reach our place......"if a path is without obstacles probably it wud lead u nowhere"someone had said it right .
Waiting for us were the directors of the college who planned to give us all a surprise visit[tragic i call this].....the staff of the coll.. give us both quick glances and order us to get in ..."run for ur life man" niki spoke again.

now everything was so peaceful inside ...tring...... the bell [to let students finish their day at college ]goes....
we come out too but there is more to handle...........there i cud see our principal staring at us both[ not only had he come back but had also seen us come late].........."these are the last moments of our life "stammered niki again.

Suddenly everything goes blank .only to notice was smoke whirling around my eyes........

PHEW!!it was just a dream[nightmare wud sound better]
but damn it was a dream that showed hell..........

That was still not that bad a day cause u drift back to memories and find many more things ,that a few days have been worse.................

HUMAN RELATIONS

HUMAN RELATIONS IS...
....human relation is a personal quality in a person for social purpose-better understanding& better relationship for working with group..
..study of human nature
..influencing human behaviour
..ability to get along
..motivating others
..interacting as well
..prejudice is bad
..intolerance is worse
..admitting mistakes is good
..cheerful disposition is best
HUMAN RELATIONS WiLL HELP U TO..
..evaluate ur'self and improve
..be warm and friendly
..be tactful
..be cordial
..be honest and reliable
..go out to others
..know thyself
..be more acceptable
..be agreeable
..be likeable

BASICS OF HUMAN RELATIONS
..remember names
..be simple,moderate
..don't get angry too often
..smile
..don't be too selfish
..make others feel important
..be a good listener
..be concerned honestly
..be genuine ,humble and sincere
A SHORT COURSE IN HUMAN RELATIONS
the 6 most important words :"i admit i made a mistake"
the 5 most important words :"u did a good job"
the 4 most important words :"what is ur opinion"
the 3 most important words :"if u please"
the 2 most important words :"thank u"
the i most important word :"we"
the least important word :......"i"